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		<title>Basic Principles: Reality</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Aug 2011 03:58:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kimberly Cooley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Good evening. Today I made the comment to someone that I was a winner. Boy, was I right! I have the finest of character and the best of personalities right in my small, inner circle, and I am so grateful. Yes. I am #winning Peace &#8211; Kimberly]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good evening. Today I made the comment to someone that I was a winner. Boy, was I right! I have the finest of character and the best of personalities right in my small, inner circle, and I am so grateful. Yes. I am #winning</p>
<p>Peace &#8211; Kimberly</p>
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		<title>The Pursuit of&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jul 2010 01:19:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kimberly Cooley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Good evening. Seeing a face changes the entire tone of your day. Receiving a text message brightens your smile.  Experiencing someone&#8217;s presence takes your spirit to a place of peace.  Feeling a hand on a shoulder brings you comfort.  Have you fallen in love?  Possibly. Or just maybe you&#8217;ve found a single being on this [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="_mcePaste">Good evening. Seeing a face changes the entire tone of your day. Receiving a text message brightens your smile.  Experiencing someone&#8217;s presence takes your spirit to a place of peace.  Feeling a hand on a shoulder brings you comfort.  Have you fallen in love?  Possibly. Or just maybe you&#8217;ve found a single being on this earth that simply makes you feel good. Regardless, allow them to contribute to your happiness.  Allow them to help you learn how to love.</div>
<p>Peace &#8211; Kimberly</p>
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		<title>Let&#8217;s Stay Together</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 10 May 2010 01:04:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kimberly Cooley</dc:creator>
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		<title>Presence Is So Underrated</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Mar 2010 03:20:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kimberly Cooley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Good evening. As promised, I said I would post about my trip to Atlanta this past weekend.  Rather than bore you with a play by play recap, I&#8217;ll just leave you with this.  It feels pretty good to spend time with true and genuine people. People that love you unconditionally.  It feels pretty good to walk into [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good evening. As promised, I said I would post about my trip to Atlanta this past weekend.  Rather than bore you with a play by play recap, I&#8217;ll just leave you with this.  It feels pretty good to spend time with true and genuine people. People that love you unconditionally.  It feels pretty good to walk into a place for the first time and know that undoubtedly in God&#8217;s timing and season, you are supposed to be in AND a part OF that place. It feels pretty good to witness God&#8217;s confirmation about so many areas in your life as if He were standing right next to you guiding you along your path.  So sweet.</p>
<p>Bridgett and Kathy, as always, the time spent was special.  The Church at Chapel Hill, the time spent was both life changing and amazing.  To all 3, the love  and fellowship was (is) simply awesome!! For all things, I am grateful.</p>
<p>Peace &#8211; Kimberly</p>
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		<title>Real Is Reality</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Mar 2010 09:10:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kimberly Cooley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Good morning.  Seriously be thankful for the people in your life that have been the same since day one &#8211; good or bad. Love on them and keep them close. Regardless of whatever situation life threw at your relationship, your relationship stood.  Distance, disagreements, or mutual annoyance were and are minor when up against the bond. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good morning.  Seriously be thankful for the people in your life that have been the same since day one &#8211; good or bad. Love on them and keep them close. Regardless of whatever situation life threw at your relationship, your relationship stood.  Distance, disagreements, or mutual annoyance were and are minor when up against the bond.  Kathy &amp; Rox, you keep me going.  You keep me loving and you love me, and when we do all of this, we keep growing.</p>
<p>Peace &#8211; Kimberly</p>
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		<title>1(one) Love</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2010 03:19:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kimberly Cooley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Good evening. Wanting someone in your life that you know ultimately doesn&#8217;t want to be there hurts. But the fact of the matter is that there&#8217;s nothing you can do about it. Some people shy away from meaningful relationships because of fear. Some shy away because they aren&#8217;t emotionally able to maintain healthy relationships, and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good evening. Wanting someone in your life that you know ultimately doesn&#8217;t want to be there hurts. But the fact of the matter is that there&#8217;s nothing you can do about it. Some people shy away from meaningful relationships because of fear. Some shy away because they aren&#8217;t emotionally able to maintain healthy relationships, and some just simply don&#8217;t have the wherewithal or capacity to love anyone but themselves.</p>
<p>Regardless of the reason, what they fail to realize is that it is indeed fellowship and time with others that make them better. It&#8217;s the simple feeling of knowing that someone cares about you and wants to be around you that makes you to want to give a bit more of yourself.</p>
<p>Now, I&#8217;m not saying go out and befriend the world. I&#8217;m talking about being emotionally available to those people that you know in your heart and without any doubt contribute to who you are as a person and are indeed a part of your destiny.</p>
<p>With all that being said, if you are reading this blog, I challenge you to:</p>
<p>� Never give up on people even when they want you to</p>
<p>� Give of yourself as much, if not greater than what you, yourself want to receive</p>
<p>� Love in such a way that it is felt rather than implied</p>
<p>� Be patient with those that aren&#8217;t so easy to be patient with</p>
<p>� Be understanding and know that &#8216;being free&#8217; and &#8216;being loved&#8217; doesn&#8217;t come easy for everyone</p>
<p>� Be real and tell it like it is&#8230;but with compassion</p>
<p>� Be trusting and trustworthy</p>
<p>� Be unpredictable and spontaneous,  but original and genuine</p>
<p>� Be strong and never give up on love, life, or relationship</p>
<p>I think this is enough to get us started. Besides, the rest of what we must do can&#8217;t be written; it must be lived.</p>
<p>Peace &amp; Love &#8211; Kimberly</p>
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		<title>Touche`</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Dec 2009 05:51:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kimberly Cooley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Good evening. There&#8217;s nothing like being reminded of just how special you are by someone very special to you. Merry Christmas, everyone! Peace &#8211; Kimberly This post was created at this location.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good evening. There&#8217;s nothing like being reminded of just how special you are by someone very special to you.</p>
<p>Merry Christmas, everyone!</p>
<p>Peace &#8211; Kimberly</p>
<p><a href="http://maps.google.com/maps?f=q&amp;source=s_q&amp;hl=en&amp;sll=33.6333,-89.71835">This post was created at this location.</a></p>
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		<title>Loyal Because&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Dec 2009 12:56:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kimberly Cooley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Good morning. There&#39;s something special and real about having people in your life that contribute to your growth and add to your destiny. These people are often few in number, but their impact is that of a nation. Peace &#8211; Kimberly Sent from my Cellular South BlackBerry&#174; Smartphone]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good morning. There&#39;s something special and real about having people in your life that contribute to your growth and add to your destiny. These people are often few in number, but their impact is that of a nation.</p>
<p>Peace &#8211; Kimberly<br />
<br />Sent from my Cellular South BlackBerry&#174;  Smartphone</p>
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		<title>Find Where I Am</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Nov 2008 03:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kimberly Cooley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Good evening. Life&#39;s situations sometimes causes us to lose focus on who we are, and in the middle of all things&#8230; lose focus on where we are. If where you are is not in a place of happiness, change your location. Any situation that draws out your bad and confines your good, is not worthy [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good evening. Life&#39;s situations sometimes causes us to lose focus on who we are, and in the middle of all things&#8230; lose focus on where we are. If where you are is not in a place of happiness, change your location. Any situation that draws out your bad and confines your good, is not worthy of you. A healthy life includes happiness in all aspects and shouldn&#39;t be negotiated for less. Encompass yourself with genuine love, good friends, and a lot of grace, and you&#39;ll find the happiness that leads you back to you! </p>
<p>E, thanx for the inspiration today; the fellowship was outstanding!  You truly are &quot;the&quot; rock star in my life&#8230;I heard Rae thinks so too!  </p>
<p>Peace &#8211; Kimberly        </p>
<p>K.M. Cooley <br />&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230; <br />Sent from my BlackBerry&#174; Smartphone</p>
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		<title>Nothing Less Than Cute&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Jun 2008 02:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kimberly Cooley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[good evening. i had another post in mind before i saw this pic. so, i tell you what! tonight you get the better of the two. i&#8217;ll &#8220;do me&#8221; tomorrow because tonight is all about jenn and scott&#8217;s jake and john! this pic says much more than i could even desire to say tonight. too [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>good evening. i had another post in mind before i saw this pic. so, i tell you what! tonight you get the better of the two. <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">i&#8217;ll</span> &#8220;do me&#8221; tomorrow because tonight is all about <a href="http://thejanii.blogspot.com/"><span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">jenn</span> </a>and <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">scott&#8217;s</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">jake</span> and john! this pic says much more than i could even desire to say tonight. too cute! hi <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4">jenn</span>!</p>
<p>one love &#8211; <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5">kimberly</span></div>
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