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	<title>Free By Design &#187; Silence</title>
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		<title>Purposefully Lonely</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 04:17:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kimberly Cooley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Good evening. The lonely place you put yourself in is totally different from the place of loneliness that God allows you to enter. The difference? Well, one breeds bitterness and complacency. The other builds character and integrity. So, what&#8217;s your choice? Waddle in pointless pity? Or embrace transformation by conviction? Word. Peace &#8211; Kimberly]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good evening. The lonely place you put yourself in is totally different from the place of loneliness that God allows you to enter. The difference? Well, one breeds bitterness and complacency. The other builds character and integrity. So, what&#8217;s your choice? Waddle in pointless pity? Or embrace transformation by conviction? Word.</p>
<p>Peace &#8211; Kimberly</p>
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		<title>How Do I Know?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 04:06:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kimberly Cooley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Good evening. The more you listen, the less you speak. Knowledge is found in books, but wisdom, my friend&#8230;comes directly from the mouths of those that lived it, experienced it, conquered it, and lived to tell YOU about it! Peace &#8211; Kimberly]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good evening. The more you listen, the less you speak. Knowledge is found in books, but wisdom, my friend&#8230;comes directly from the mouths of those that lived it, experienced it, conquered it, and lived to tell YOU about it!  </p>
<p>Peace &#8211; Kimberly</p>
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		<title>Emotional Expectations</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2009 00:48:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kimberly Cooley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Good evening. Sometimes you&#8217;re pulled in more directions than you can go or too often than you can bear. Slip away for a long stretch of solitude and not only will you rediscover you, but you will also discover those people that don&#8217;t need anything from you nor require anything of you. Everyone else&#8230;.well they&#8217;ll [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good evening. Sometimes you&#8217;re pulled in more directions than you can go or too often than you can bear. Slip away for a long stretch of solitude and not only will you rediscover you, but you will also discover those people that don&#8217;t need anything from you nor require anything of you. Everyone else&#8230;.well they&#8217;ll be just fine. </p>
<p>Peace &#8211; Kimberly <br />Sent from my Cellular South BlackBerry®  Smartphone</p>
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		<title>Noise</title>
		<link>http://www.kimberlycooley.com/2009/09/noise/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=noise</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2009 03:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kimberly Cooley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Good evening. A few people have been a little &#34;hot&#34; with me because I&#39;ve been a little distant and not nearly as sociable as I can be at times. Not to mention, a few things changed in my life that I didn&#39;t immediately share. Well, guys, this distance did not come without purpose. Let me [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good evening. A few people have been a little &quot;hot&quot; with me because I&#39;ve been a little distant and not nearly as sociable as I can be at times. Not to mention, a few things changed in my life that I didn&#39;t immediately share. Well, guys, this distance did not come without purpose. Let me explain. </p>
<p>Its good to have people around and friends on the phone and all of that, but there are times we just need to hit &quot;mute.&quot; No disrespect for what I&#39;m about to say, but it&#39;s truth and it&#39;s heart. I appreciate the people in my life, but when it comes to seeking divine direction, I can&#39;t afford to miss it; we can&#39;t afford to miss it.</p>
<p>Every minute on the minute our ears are on alert for whatever is audible, but there is a distinctive difference on how we process it.   We hear noise, but we listen to sound. Makes sense? If not, noise is defined as: &quot;randomness: the quality of lacking any predictable order or plan.&quot; In other words, noise is typically associated with chaos. Sound is closely knitted to stability and consistency, thus enticing us to actually listen. Got it? Good.</p>
<p>Sometimes we have to eliminate the noise in our heads, as Coach B. would put it, and listen to what God is gently speaking.  Not to say we don&#39;t appreciate people that provide guidance and advice, but when it comes to divine order, we simply can&#39;t afford to miss what He is saying. We just NEED TO BE QUIET.  That&#39;s it.</p>
<p>Peace &#8211; Kimberly<br />
<br />Sent from my Cellular South BlackBerry&#174;  Smartphone</p>
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		<title>Convincing Computer Animation Recreates Hudson Plane Landing</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Mar 2009 18:23:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kimberly Cooley</dc:creator>
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		<title>Quick Talking So Much</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jan 2009 14:50:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kimberly Cooley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[good morning. talking isn&#8217;t always necessary when helping others to heal.&#160; sometimes situations just require you to just be there. remember, your presence can be stronger than any word you could ever speak. help by how you walk.&#160; if you must talk, talk to God and ask Him to take the lead you while you [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>good morning. talking isn&#8217;t always necessary when helping others to heal.&nbsp; sometimes situations just require you to just be there. remember, your presence can be stronger than any word you could ever speak. help by how you walk.&nbsp; if you must talk, talk to God and ask Him to take the lead you while you do.</p>
<p>peace &#8211; kimberly </p>
<p>Sent from my BlackBerry® smartphone</p>
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		<title>Listening In Stillness</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Jul 2008 10:20:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kimberly Cooley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Good morning. Early morning is such an amazing time of the day. All sounds are serene but yet eventful. At just the right time, you can almost hear the rest of the world waking up to join you. I hear CeCe Winans singing, &#8220;Waging Wars&#8221; softly. I hear my neighbor starting his truck as he [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good morning. Early morning is such an amazing time of the day. All sounds are serene but yet eventful. At just the right time, you can almost hear the rest of the world waking up to join you. I hear CeCe Winans singing, &#8220;Waging Wars&#8221; softly. I hear my neighbor starting his truck as he prepares for work. I hear the pack of stray dogs that creep down the street before day and before anyone else is awake to catch them (smart rascals). Yet, in all of this, I hear stillness. I hear the most important man in existence who has the busiest day everyday delicately caring for the world but doing so with and in total peace. He cradles a 4 month old in Cleveland, and breathes life a second time, into a soldier in Iraq&#8230;all in the same second. Amazing. He sings to sleep the widow in Alaska and warms the cold feet and of bride to be in Louisiana &#8211; both in the same instance. Can you hear Him work?</p>
<p>One love &#8211; kimberly</p>
<p>K.M. Cooley<br />&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;<br />Sent from my BlackBerry® Smartphone</p>
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		<title>Tell Me Why</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Mar 2008 02:31:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kimberly Cooley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[good evening. what i&#8217;m feeling. check it out. &#8220;tell me why&#8221;, Will Smith and Mary J. Blige. one love &#8211; kimberly I really wish I could explain it baby (why),It&#8217;s just the world is kinda crazy baby (why),Ain&#8217;t no pretty way to paint it baby (why),Don&#8217;t cry, dry your eyesSeptember 11th, I woke up about [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>good evening.  what i&#8217;m feeling.  check it out. &#8220;tell me why&#8221;, Will Smith and Mary J. Blige.</p>
<p>one love &#8211; kimberly</p>
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<p><span style="font-size:85%;">I really wish I could explain it baby (why),<br />It&#8217;s just the world is kinda crazy baby (why),<br />Ain&#8217;t no pretty way to paint it baby (why),<br />Don&#8217;t cry, dry your eyes<br />September 11th, I woke up about 7am, west coast time, French toast and my<br />Turkey bacon, taking my time, awakin&#8217;, turning my TV on<br />To my surprise, saw what everybody in the world saw<br />Me &amp; my children, images were chillin&#8217;<br />My son said, &#8220;Daddy were there people in that building?&#8221;<br />A cold sweat, frozen with a lump in my chest<br />I heard his question, couldn&#8217;t bring my lips to say &#8220;Yes&#8221; to him<br />That night at my son&#8217;s side, he cried &amp; prayed<br />For the one&#8217;s who died in the World Trade<br />His palms to God, seeds and qualms with God<br />He just kept on pressin&#8217; me, wanna know why<br />Then one week later our bombs were dropped<br />We seein&#8217; them on CNN, they just won&#8217;t stop<br />The infrared images of brutal attack<br />He said, &#8220;Daddy now we killin&#8217; em back&#8221;; (right, right)</p>
<p>Mmmmm, souls are captured<br />Dreams are stolen, hearts are broken<br />Evil blatantly rewarded<br />Hate surrenders, Love exalted<br />Hope elated, negativity is shorted<br />Why is the bomb always getting the last word<br />&amp; why did her uncle have to molest her<br />&amp; why did all them cops have to be shootin&#8217; to kill<br />&amp; why did all them priests have to act so ill<br />Tell me why did James Byrd Jr. have to be touched<br />Tell me why did Malcolm &amp; Martin depart from us<br />Tell me why did that sniper make the little boy shoot<br />&amp; why does human life always denied for loot<br />Tell me why did Mandela have to live in a cage<br />Why did my brother Sterling have to die at that age<br />Tell me why did Reginald Denny deserve his fate<br />&amp; why the f*@k can&#8217;t love seem to defeat hate<br />Tell me why is it so hard for all the children to eat<br />Why did Pac &amp; Biggie Smalls have to fall in the street<br />Tell me why did Jam Master Jay have to go that way<br />Please what am I supposed to say to my kids when they say &#8216;Why?&#8217;</p>
<p>Can&#8217;t explain it baby, life is just really crazy<br />I mean if it&#8217;s world wars or the life of a little baby<br />We got more stores than they got rice under Buddha lazy<br />You live four scores &amp; still it be driving you crazy<br />But for me I try to see the bright side<br />Sometimes it&#8217;d be like the goodness be tryin&#8217; to hide<br />Then try to flee, but it can&#8217;t it&#8217;s deep inside<br />Sweetie, you be the light for the others, make &#8216;em believe in God</span></p>
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		<title>Stilled</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Mar 2008 09:48:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kimberly Cooley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Good morning. Shhhhh. If you&#39;ve never stolen any &#34;time&#34; before everything around you starts moving, you should try it. Its amazing! Make it an awesome day! One love &#8211; kimberly (((k.m. cooley)) &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230; Sent from my BlackBerry&#174; Smartphone]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good morning. Shhhhh. If you&#39;ve never stolen any &quot;time&quot; before everything around you starts moving, you should try it. Its amazing! Make it an awesome day! </p>
<p>One love &#8211; kimberly</p>
<p>(((k.m. cooley))</p>
<p>&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;<br />
<br />Sent from my BlackBerry&#174; Smartphone</p>
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		<title>I Speak _________</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Feb 2008 14:08:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kimberly Cooley</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Good morning! Awwww! Say it with me, &#8220;Refreshed!&#8221; Ya&#8217;ll, I had the best night of rest last night than I&#8217;ve had in a long time. My mind was and still is at peace. Thank God!! Someone asked me this morning what did I do to get to this place. I simply said, &#8221; God&#8221;. Then [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good morning! Awwww! Say it with me, &#8220;Refreshed!&#8221; Ya&#8217;ll, I had the best night of rest last night than I&#8217;ve had in a long time. My mind was and still is at peace. Thank God!! Someone asked me this morning what did I do to get to this place. I simply said, &#8221; God&#8221;. Then I was reminded that I had spoken early yesterday morning that going home and resting was exactly what I was going to do after work. So the correct answer should have been, &#8220;I spoke it, and God allowed it.&#8221;
<p>Our words are shakers of God&#8217;s word. WE, just don&#8217;t speak enough!</p>
<p>&#8220;&#8230;Speak of the nonexistent things that [He has foretold and promised] as if they [already] existed.&#8221; &#8211; Romans 4:17 (Amplified)</p>
<p>One love &#8211; kimberly</p>
<p>K.M. Cooley<br />&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;<br />Sent from my Blackberry Wireless Handheld</p>
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